The Way

This month in my sacred circle gathering we’re going to be talking about the Tao., As I gathered my materials together, I was reminded how much this “belief” system works for me.

I’d once set my pen to translating each written text and it’s packed away somewhere with my other musings.

Those I remember are:

Stay grounded

Do nothing and it all gets done.

Be like water, a permeable substance that flows around any obstacle.

Stay detached

Embrace each moment.

The emptiness of a pot provides its usefulness.

Comparison creates division

The truth is simple and by living it you become your authentic self.

There are so many more tenets that encourage and support one’s path. The Tao has no rules to follow, allows for no judgements, no rigid rituals to adhere to. You are on a unique path, an original being, and your way is the right way for you.

I will be diving back in over the next couple of day, reading what I’d scribbled in the margins, wanting to see if I’ve expanded and grown and have a deeper understanding of its wisdom.

Times they are a changin’

I’m ready to shift tracks and head in a new direction, hopping aboard the marketing train, bound and determined to improve my skills.

I’ve contacted another person to build a new website and maintain it so my newly published books will make it to the page and I’m hopefully meeting soon with a recent marketing graduate who will help me navigate all those social media platforms important to building readership. It’s time for giveaways, selfies, tapping into resources, contacting beta readers, and more impactful newsletters. I’ve been making headway in sales, but I’m ready to cast a net and capture more of them.

As I finish up my original eight goddess reads in my series, my mind is awhirl with possibilities for the next one. Women of Eden will keep me in the small town I’ve come to love, with newcomers who bring fresh skills and talents to the thriving community. They’ll frequent Magic Bean, pick up gardening tips from Ina at Gardens of Eden and one might take riding lessons from Hina, but they will form their own sacred circle of female friendships. And of course, sparks will fly with a man who they swear will never suit.

Eve’s a mid-wife, (birth) will be paired with Will, a funeral home director (death). Jord will be paired with Noah, both in construction, but one with a biased attitude about the proper career for a woman, the kind of man some love to hate.. Not sure yet about Sophia, or Selene, or will it be Tara, or Mari… Can’t wait to see who pops up and which trope they call for.

Follow me as I journey on.

Stepping back into normal

With both shots behind me, I’m stepping out again and it feels good. The weather hasn’t exactly been cooperating, but today it’s sunny and spring like. I have the windows open and can hear the sounds of lawn mowers, paving trucks, and birds chirping. Oh, and we had a couple of turkeys squawking earlier just a few houses away. Mother nature seems to be turning the corner and I’m eager to turn it with her.

Spent my morning chasing down marketing venues. I’m hoping to find new ways to get the word out about my not-so-new series, Everyday Goddesses. I’ve put it aside for the last few months but I’m anxious to get back on track. I’ve chased down beta readers, and received a mile-long list of interested parties willing to read my books. Unfortunately, very got back to me. Maybe quality is better than quantity because the few that did, gave me awesome reviews.

If anyone knows how to attract readers, induce reviews or help me get more exposure, I’d love to hear from you.

Hina Kalani…

Last week I described the process for developing a series and the characters who come to inhabit it. My current series, Everyday Goddesses, speaks to the aspects of goddess that exists in all of us; nurturer, warrior, justice seeker, storyteller, creator of life, scientist, and empath. Our wounds might be our excuse to fall or what motivates us to rise and which ever way it goes, they are the badges we wear that prove our humanity. As I was choosing which goddesses to use as symbolic representations of the divine feminine, I wanted to pick across the mythical spectrum. Gwen is Celt, Minerva is Roman, Rhea is Greek, Cerridwen is Irish, Inanna is from the Sumerian pantheon of archetypal figures.

Hina seemed to be the logical choice to represent the Polynesian culture which meant she had to come from Hawaii, bringing with her the ancestral wisdom, the ancients were known for. As a water sign, she was tied closely to the moon, tides, ebbing and flowing, enlightenment and inner knowing, so it was natural for her to be an empath. She has a kinship with nature, horses in particular, so it was obvious she had to own a horse farm, and as a healer, she was fated to start a equine facilitation program. Some of the questions that had to be answered once these facts were established were how did she get to Eden? Was her childhood idyllic or had she been wounded in some way? And if so, how? What was her upbringing like? Where did she come from from and where was she going? What are her strengths? What are her flaws? Who would best complement her as a mate? (It is a romance after all)

That’s when research begins, my imagination kicks in, and my muse starts whispering in my ear.

How well do I know my characters, you ask…

Better than I know myself at times.

They become friends over time, and as with anyone you befriend in life, it takes time and attention to grow kinship. It takes interest, intent and curiosity.

The relationship with my characters begins with the conception of an idea.

For me, the Everyday Goddesses series was birthed as a result of my belief that woman are warriors, and that they bring to the world an essence that’s been missing for…oh, about 2,000 years.

I feel it’s imperative we begin to acknowledge and honor it because it’s the only way we’ll reach balance and healing on this planet called Earth. (Gaia)

Once the EG series was clarified in my mind, I needed eight women who embodied the aspects of the Divine Feminine and decided to attach them to the elements, fire, air, water and earth. They were the first ingredients that went into the cauldron where I planned to cook up the characters I needed to fit the template of everyday woman extraordinaire. I added a pinch of astrological information, a dose of magic, eight Neolithic symbols of the ancestral mother, mythological names, and more than a dollop of love,… and…poof, Rhea, Gwenhwyfar, Minerva, Lilith, Cerridwen, Inanna, Brigid, and Hina were born. (As I write, four more are asking to be fleshed out and I’m having trouble shushing them. If they have their way, Qadesh, Eve, Jord and Selene will be telling their stories, using me as the medium.)

These women are my collective, a garden of seeds ready to sprout forth, new perspectives of the world at large, growing in an abundance. Each one embodies the sacred in women, in a variety of constructs. In the next blog, I’ll let you in on how I took a block of an idea and chipped away, until I had exposed the three-dimensional person who was hiding within.